I don’t say this to brag, but I get treated REALLY well by a lot of people.
✅ When I go to my favorite coffee shop, my coffee is often on the house.
✅ When I needed a new suit for an event, my stylist delivered it personally to my home.
✅ When I travel, I’ve had managers go out of their way to hand-deliver items I forgot to pack.
✅ When there was a two-hour wait at a restaurant, I got seated immediately—no questions asked.
✅ When I needed something at a store, the manager opened a new register just for me.
It happens all the time. Everywhere.
And if you were with me, you’d see it in real time. Even when I don’t order dessert at a restaurant, the waiter usually brings out something special—for free.
Now, I know what you’re thinking…
“How the heck do you get all this special treatment?”
The answer is simple:
BE A GOOD CUSTOMER.
And if you want to win in Network Marketing, this concept is GOLD.
Let me explain…
Your Reputation Determines Your Results
A few weeks ago, I was at a high-end hotel bar with a friend. She asked the host for a table and was told, “It’ll be a 45-minute wait.”
Meanwhile, I walked up to the maître d’, shook his hand, and made a simple comment:
“I love coming here this time of year. You guys always create such an amazing atmosphere.”
And I meant it.
Then I asked, “Any chance we can grab a table now?”
And BOOM. We were seated immediately.
My friend looked at me like I just performed a magic trick.
“HOW did you do that?”
Simple: I wasn’t just another customer demanding a seat. I acknowledged his work, respected what he did, and built a connection.
I didn’t slip him a $20. I didn’t name-drop. I just approached the conversation differently than most people do.
And this is EXACTLY how you win in Network Marketing.
See, most people are transactional. They’re only thinking about what they can get—whether it’s a sale, a favor, or a quick win.
But the BIGGEST earners in network marketing? They play a different game.
They’re not just trying to close a sale.
They’re not spamming links.
They’re not shoving products in people’s faces.
Instead…
They focus on building real relationships.
And when you do that, your team grows, your influence multiplies, and your business explodes.
How to Become the Most Respected Person in Your Business
Here’s the secret: The better you treat people, the better YOU get treated.
This applies to customers, team members, and even strangers you meet online.
So, let’s break it down into three simple shifts you can make starting TODAY:
1. Stop Selling, Start Listening
When you walk into a restaurant, a store, or even a hotel, what do most people do?
They focus on themselves.
✔️ “I need a table.”
✔️ “I want this, and I want it now.”
✔️ “Why aren’t you moving faster?”
But what happens when you flip the script?
Imagine you’re at a coffee shop. Instead of just ordering, you say:
“Hey, I really appreciate how fast you guys move when it’s busy. You must get slammed during the morning rush.”
BOOM.
Instant connection. Instant respect.
Now, let’s bring this back to Network Marketing…
If you’re constantly sending copy-paste messages like:
🚫 “Hey! Have you heard about this amazing product?”
🚫 “You’d be GREAT at this business! Want to join?”
STOP.
Instead, start the conversation by listening.
Ask about THEIR goals. THEIR challenges. THEIR dreams.
And then? Offer a solution based on what they actually need.
When you lead with value, people WANT to work with you.
2. Treat Your Team Like Gold
Let me tell you about a barista I know.
She’s amazing at making coffee, but her real passion? She’s a drummer.
Every time I see her, I ask about her gigs. Not because I have to—but because I genuinely care.
Guess what happens?
Whenever I walk in, she already knows my order. Sometimes, she even comps my drink.
Not because I expect it. But because I built a real relationship.
Now, apply this to your network marketing team…
Are you just pushing them to hit ranks?
Or are you genuinely invested in their success?
Do you celebrate their wins—even the small ones?
Do you check in just to see how they’re doing (without talking about the business)?
The top leaders in this industry build people up. They pour into their team.
And as a result? Their team sticks around. They stay motivated. And they duplicate.
3. Be the Person People WANT to Buy From
Have you ever called customer service and been put on hold FOREVER?
Frustrating, right?
But what if, instead of complaining, you started the conversation with:
“Hey, I bet you’ve been dealing with some tough calls today. I really appreciate your help.”
Instant shift.
Most people treat customer service reps like garbage. But when you show respect? You stand out.
Same goes for sales in Network Marketing.
Most people are just pushing a product.
✔️ “Want to try this new supplement?”
✔️ “This skincare will change your life!”
But what if, instead, you focused on connection first?
✔️ “Hey, I saw your post about trying to lose weight! What’s been your biggest struggle?”
✔️ “I love how you’re all about self-care! What’s your favorite skincare routine right now?”
See the difference?
Instead of coming off salesy, you come off as helpful, interested, and genuine.
And when people like and trust you—they BUY from you.
The Secret to Long-Term Success in Network Marketing
Here’s the truth:
🔹 Success isn’t just about what you sell.
🔹 It’s about who you are.
If you build REAL relationships…
If you treat people with RESPECT…
If you lead with VALUE instead of just trying to make a quick buck…
You’ll become the kind of person people trust, respect, and WANT to do business with.
And that’s when your business skyrockets.
So, here’s your challenge:
🔹 Think about your next interaction—whether online or in person.
🔹 How can you shift from transactional to relational?
🔹 How can you show up as the person people WANT to follow?
Drop your answer in the comments below. 👇
Let’s build something amazing—together. 🚀🔥
